I became pregnant for the first time at the age of 30. I felt so lucky, responsible, unprepared and excited. To have another living being growing inside of you is a miracle.
I had been practising and teaching yoga for a decade by this stage, so I knew my body pretty well. But this unfamiliar body, constantly changing, was new to me in so many ways.
Like many first timers I gave up anything unhealthy (for a week or two ;-) and wanted to be in the best physical and mental shape I could be. I wanted to make the best possible 'home' for that baby for those 9 months.
Of course my yoga practise changed. I knew it was safe to continue to do yoga right up to (and during) labour. But I also knew that certain poses needed to be modified, some would be excluded until after I had had the baby and some would feature more frequently to aid an easier birth.
I attended two unhelpful sessions of Prenatal Yoga, where I felt nothing but frustration. Halfway through the first class we were warned, 'This is quite challenging, so just do what you can'...
We copied the teacher as she rose onto her tip-toes and stretched her arms up to the ceiling.
How that was going to prepare me for labour I couldn't fathom!
And so I trusted myself. I had years of experience, had worked under the guidance of numerous senior teachers and attended countless Iyengar Yoga Pregnancy workshops.
As my tummy grew, so too did the number of pregnant yoga students under my care. Pregnancy yoga classes are unique in that the women bond pretty quickly. Everyone has lots in common, questions to ask and things to share.
We've all heard extreme labour stories, but these stories need to be balanced with the many positive ones. Pregnant ladies need to hear how labour can be the most sublime experience. Yes, it hurts a lot, but it is within each of us to make labour a more manageable experience, of which we feel we have some control.
The prenatal yoga class is a time for women to prepare themselves physically, mentally and emotionally. It is a time to hear positive labour stories, to know you can feel empowered, to learn tools to help you achieve a positive birthing experience.
A good Pregnancy Yoga class needs the following ingredients:
1) First and foremost the teacher must be highly qualified and experienced. I am shocked at the downright dangerous advice some students have been given by some 'yoga' teachers. Check their credentials! Iyengar yoga teachers undergo annual professional development and assessment to ensure their teaching is current, appropriate and safe!
2) The yoga is varied. It will strengthen your body and mind to prepare both for the arduous nature of labour and delivery. You wouldn't run a marathon without training for it. Labour is (possibly) the most physical thing you will ever do. Holding poses a little longer, with your thighs aching, you will be guided through breathing and feel better prepared to tackle what lies ahead. It also helps you to enjoy a pregnancy with minimal discomfort.
3) You will learn to breathe. There are different breaths to aid the different stages of labour. I cannot express how crucial the breathing is. If you cultivate a strong practise the breathing and movements will kick in automatically. My preparation helped me move with the energy, using it, rather than fighting it.
4) To give you confidence. I think it is common to feel unprepared and fearful at the beginning of a pregnancy. We feel we should somehow know how to do it, and yet, in this first-world that we live in, we are so far removed from our instincts that we lack faith in ourselves. Prenatal yoga should weave together mind, body and spirit, giving you an insight and awareness that provides confidence in yourself.
5) Shared information and experiences happen naturally, as women meet and chat with one another, bonded by this experience. Some women find it difficult - how pregnancy changes their body - and talking things over with others can reduce anxiety and stress.
6) At the core of all yoga is acceptance and surrender. Prenatal yoga will not guarantee you the birth you want, but it will grant you the grace of acceptance and surrender. You cannot control certain events in life, but you can be in control of how you react and respond.
Benefits of Prenatal Yoga:
Boosts circulation - less likely to suffer from varicose veins
Relieves aches and pains - including back pain
Reduces fluid retention
Strengthens abdominal and pelvic floor muscles - helping you get back into shape afterwards
Increases stamina, strength & flexibility of muscles needed for childbirth
Prenatal yoga with Sarah starts September:
- Fridays 11am (starts 25th Sept) at Stansted Quaker Meeting House, Chapel Hill, Stansted, CM24 8JL (beside Linden House) (map)
- Wednesday evenings (starts mid-Sept) in Dunmow - venue tbc